Question

It’s easier to agree than disagree. The following tips(建议) can help keep disagreements constructive (建设性的).

Don’t make it personal.

If you get upset, it can help to remember that you’re mad at the person’s idea, not the person.

Never criticize the other person’s idea.

Instead of saying “That’s a stupid idea!”, try:“I don’t agree, and here’s why.” Never shout loudly and you’ll have a much better chance of getting your idea across.

Use “I” statements to communicate how you feel and what you think.

Using “you” statements can sound argumentative (好争论的). For example, telling your mom “You always remind me about my chores when I have a lot of homework” has a very different tone (语气) from “I’m under pressure because I have a lot of homework tonight. Can I do those chores tomorrow?”

Listen to the other point of view.

When the other person is talking, try to stop thinking about why you disagree or what you’ll say next. Instead, focus on what’s being said. When it’s your turn to talk, repeat any key points the other person made to show you have paid attention to what was said. Then calmly express why you disagree.

Stay calm.

This is the most important thing you can do to keep a conversation go on well.

1. What does the underlined word “focus ” mean in the third paragraph?

   A.专注         B.赞赏            C.同意          D. 诠释

2. What should we do when the other person is talking according to the passage?

A. Think about why we disagree.        B. Pay attention to what he’s saying.

C. Think about what we’ll say next.      D. Expresses our own idea to him.

3. Which is the right way to show that you disagree with someone?

A. I’m afraid I disagree with you.       B. Your idea sounds terrible.

C. You always ask me many questions.   D. Your idea is quite wrong.

4. How many tips does the writer list in the passage?

   A. Three.      B. Four.       C. Five.      D. Six.

5. What does the passage mainly talk about?

   A. Discussion about disagreements.

   B. Attitude towards disagreements.

C. Opinions about disagreements.

D. Tips to show disagreements. 

Answer 1

1A   2B   3A   4C   5D