Question

You may feel comfortable with some people. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half a life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.

How is it done? __1.__ If you follow the skills, you’ll make friends with people quickly.

First of all, good talkers ask questions. __2._ One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to some other questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.

__3.__ This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your question should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.

Real listening at least means some things. _4._ If someone sticks to one topic, it means he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones (语气) of voice. If the voice sounds boring, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.

Finally, good talkers know well when to say good-bye. Remember to give him a handshake and say, “ I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” __5.__ Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.

A. Almost anyone will answer a question.

B. Here are several skills that good talkers have.

C. If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret.

D. First, it means not to change the subject of the conversation.

E. Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers.

 

Answer 1

1.B

2.A

3.E

4.D

5.C

【解析】

试题分析：在交流的过程中有的人让你感觉到舒服，经过一个小时的交流仿佛相识有半生之久。那么如何有好的交流技巧，短文介绍了几个方法：1.会问问题。2.做为好的交流者，要在问过问题之后，学会倾听。3.想再见面，就不要保守秘密。

1.时可能会感觉到舒服。经过一个小时的交流，就好象是相互了解了。如何做到这些呢？这里有几点交流的技巧。通过阅读全文，下文都在介绍相关技巧，因此选择第二项。故选B

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4.对他这个话题感兴趣。真正的交流者通过语气来判断，如果语气是无聊的，那么最好改变主题。从而推断为，首先，不要改变交流的主题。故选D

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考点：社会现象类短文阅读。