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【题目】So many of us hold on to little complaints that may have come from an argument, a misunderstanding, the way we were raised, or some other painful events. Stubbornly, we wait for someone else to reach out to us—believing this is the only way we can forgive or rekindle a friendship or family relationship.

A friend of mine, recently told me that she hadn't spoken to her son in almost three years. She said that she and her son had had a disagreement about his wife and that she wouldn't speak to him again unless he called first. When I suggested that she be the one to reach out, she said, “I can't do that. He's the one who should apologize.” After a little gentle encouragement, however, she did decide to be the first one to reach out. To her amazement, her son was grateful for her willingness to call and offered an apology of his own. As is usually the case when someone takes the chance and reaches out, everyone wins.

Whenever we hold on to our anger, we turn “small stuff(问题)” into really “big stuff” in our minds. We start to believe that our positions are more important than our happiness. They are not. If you want to be a more peaceful person you must understand that being right is almost never more important than allowing yourself to be happy. The way to be happy is to let go, and reach out. Let other people be right. This doesn't mean that you're wrong. Everything will be fine. You'll experience the peace of letting go, as well as the joy of letting others be right.

You'll also notice that, as you reach out and let others be “right，” they will become less defensive and more loving toward you. They might even reach back. But, if for some reason they don't, that's okay too. You'll have the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your part to create a more loving world, and certainly you'll be more peaceful yourself.

【1】The underlined word “rekindle” in Paragraph 1 probably means “________”．

A. recover B. develop

C. accept D. replace

【2】In the author's opinion, we hold on to our anger often because we think ________.

A. we can turn small issues into big ones

B. our positions are higher than others

C. our own opinions matter most

D. others will be less defensive

【3】The best thing to do after a quarrel is to ______.

A. let go of our own rights

B. realize that you are wrong

C. expect others to give in

D. apologize to others first

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】A

【2】C

【3】D

【解析】本文主要告诉我们：学会首先向别人道歉。快乐的方法就是放手，伸出手，让别人是对的，这并不意味着你是错误的。

【1】A

词义猜测题。根据第一段第二句Stubbornly, we wait for someone else to reach out to us—believing this is the only way we can forgive or rekindle a friendship or family relationship. 顽固地，我们等待别人来接触我们，相信这是唯一的方法我们可以原谅或者重新点燃一段友谊或家庭关系。根据第二段最后一句As is usually the case when someone takes the chance and reaches out, everyone wins.就像平常一样，当有人需要机会和伸出时,每个人都赢。故选A.

【2】C

细节理解题。根据第三段第一、二句Whenever we hold on to our anger, we turn “small stuff（问题）” into really “big stuff” in our minds. We start to believe that our positions are more important than our happiness. 无论什么时候我们坚持我们的愤怒，我们都能把小的问题转化成大的问题。我们开始相信我们的立场比我们的幸福更重要。故选C.

【3】D

推理判断题。根据第三段中的The way to be happy is to let go, and reach out. Let other people be right. This doesn’t mean that you’re wrong. 快乐的方法就是放手, 伸出手，让别人是对的，这并不意味着你是错误的。所以争吵过后最好的办法是：首先向别人道歉。故选D.