Making friends is a skill like most skills. It improves with practice. If you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some action. You must first go where there are people. You won’t make friends staying home alone.
Joining a club or a group, talking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. Or join someone in some activity.
Many people are nervous when talking to new people. After all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about unknown. Most of our fears about dealing with new people comes from doubts about ourselves. We imagine other people are judging us, finding us too tall or too short, too this or too that. But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. Try to accept yourself as you are, and try to put the other person at ease. You’ll both feel more comfortable.
Try to act self-confident even if you don’t feel that way. When you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.
If you see someone you’d like to speak to, say something. Don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
Just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person—friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. It takes time and effort to develop.
【小题1】The best topic of the passage may be ________.
A.Friendship | B.Making friends | C.Meeting New People | D.Facing the Unknown |
A.Making friends needs practicing. |
B.Making friends needs to be more active in getting in touch with people. |
C.When meeting someone, make him feel nice and easy. |
D.Before making friends with someone, judge him if he’s too this or too that. |
A.a lot of money | B.lots of conversation |
C.time and effort | D.carefully judging |
【小题1】B
【小题2】D
【小题3】C
解析试题分析:本文教育人们如何交朋友,以及在交朋友的时候所要采取的一些措施。
【小题1】B 主旨大意题。根据文章主题段第一段Making friends is a skill like most skills. It improves with practice. If you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some action.可知本文主要讲述的就是交朋友的话题,故B正确。
【小题2】D 细节题。根据文章第三段We imagine other people are judging us, finding us too tall or too short, too this or too that. But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. Try to accept yourself as you are, and try to put the other person at ease. You’ll both feel more comfortable.说明D项的说明是错误的,我们过早地形成观点。故D项正确。
【小题3】C 细节题。根据文章最后一句It takes time and effort to develop.说明得到友谊需要时间和努力。故C正确。
考点:考查教育类短文阅读
点评:本文教育人们如何交朋友,以及在交朋友的时候所要采取的一些措施。本文细节题居多,答题时在文章找到对应的地方,用笔进行标记,这有利于后期有时间检查时可以立刻找到答案的位置。仔细理解作者所讲的意思,再结合选项,通过排除法和自己对全文的把握,选出正确答案。
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Most Americans prefer to have a lot of eye contact when they are talking with someone. When a person doesn’t make eye contact with them, they tend to think that the person is hiding something or the person doesn’t believe in himself/herself.
When you are having a conversation and you want to leave a friendly impression, be sure to keep looking at that person frequently while you are talking. If it really bothers you to look directly into another person’s eyes, you can gaze generally at, not above, the eyebrow area or the bridge of the nose; this is close enough to the eye region that you will appear to be looking at the person’s eyes. But neither the hair or the shoulders have the same effect. Don’t stare at other people too intensely, otherwise, you will look aggressive(攻击性).
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Which of the following is NOT the impression left by those who don’t make eye contact during the talk?
A. They are not telling the truth. B. They are bored with the partner.
C. They are lacking in confidence D. They are angry and ready to attack.
Besides the eyes of the partner, during the talk, you can look at his/her ___________.
A. hair B. shoulders C. the bridge of the nose D. area above the eyebrows
From the passage, we can learn that ____________________.
A. looking away during conversation should always be avoided.
B. looking at a person frequently can give him/her a good impression.
C. many Americans feel like being stared at for a long time.
D. all successful people are good at making eye contact.
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B. How to use eye contact to make a good impression
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17.A.ashamed B.afraid C.sure D.proud
18.A.private B.secret C.interesting D.funny
19.A.foolish B.polite C.simple D.brave
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24.A.any B.most C.none D.all
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26.A.view B.sign C.attention D.remark
27.A.also B.even C.still D.ever
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30.A.words B.rings C.repeats D.calls
31.A.cold B.plain C.nervous D.lively
32.A.in case B.so long as C.unless D.because
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阅读下面短文,从后面各题所给的四个选项(A、B、C和D)中选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该项的标号涂黑。
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A.but B.and C.while D.or
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C. having lost a profit-making business | D. having lost a well-paid job |
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A. he couldn’t earn enough money to support his family |
B. he was suffering from sleeplessness disease |
C. he couldn’t get out of mental pressure |
D. he felt tired of adult-education classes |
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A. he hadn’t been able to spare time to mend them |
B. he wanted to kill his free time by repairing them |
C. the items had actually been broken and needed attention |
D. repairing the items helped crowd worry out of his mind |
At the end of the passage, the author wrote about Winston Churchill in order to ________.
A. prove that he followed Churchill’s example |
B. support his student’s solution to his problem |
C. show that he was successful in his career |
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